Reframing Me - Self-Development & Parenting Teens for Midlife Moms

Your kids are growing up - but so are you. Reframing Me is the podcast for moms of teens ready to reframe family, identity, and self-development in midlife.

Parenting teens is hard -and parenting while rediscovering yourself in midlife can feel even harder. Reframing Me is the parenting podcast for moms raising teenagers who are also navigating the transition out of hands-on motherhood, identity shifts, and the search for balance, fulfillment, and self-development.

Hosted by Dr. Jennifer Brubaker, a Communication Studies professor, mom of three teens, and intrapersonal communication expert, each episode blends family communication strategies, honest conversations about parenting teens, and self-reflection tools to help moms strengthen family relationships while rediscovering who they are as women.

Together we’ll talk about the issues moms face but don’t always say out loud: changing family dynamics, feeling invisible, letting go of control, and creating new purpose. Through research, theory, and compassionate conversation, you’ll find support, strategies, and a sense of community in this season of parenting and personal growth.

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Reframing Me - Self-Development & Parenting Teens for Midlife Moms

When Your Nervous System Is Overwhelmed but Parenting Doesn’t Stop: Raising Teens Through Unsettled Times

January 09, 2026 • Dr. Jennifer Brubaker

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Right now, many of us are being asked to function normally while living through ongoing instability, fear, and institutional breakdown, and that disconnect is exhausting. If you’re struggling to focus, feeling emotionally overwhelmed or numb, pulling back socially, or finding yourself more irritable or fatigued than usual, this isn’t a personal failure. It’s a nervous system responding normally to prolonged stress.

For parents of teens, this season is especially complicated. Our teenagers are old enough to understand what’s happening in the world but don’t yet have fully developed emotional regulation or perspective. They may respond with anxiety, withdrawal, cynicism, or emotional shutdown - not because they don’t care, but because their nervous systems are protecting them.

This is not a season for flawless parenting or emotional certainty. It’s a season for gentleness, honesty, and regulated presence. Feeling overwhelmed doesn’t mean you’re failing -it means you’re human in a moment that is genuinely heavy.

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